I Don’t Like Meditating. Here’s Why I Do It Anyway

I don’t like to meditating . I do it regularly, and my life is better. Stress is less. My health has improved. The problems seem smaller. It seems bigger.

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I’m not a fan of meditation, even though I’m ashamed to admit it. My martial arts are studied, but I know how to adapt and make the world a better place.

I realize this speaks poorly of me as a person, kind of like my opinions on aikido, jazz music, pumpkin pie, and “A Prairie Home Companion.” That I’m not fond of them doesn’t mean bad.

Worse yet, when I do meditate daily, I find my life is better. My health improves because of stress. I can focus more on my work and be able to concentrate more on it. No issue appeared to be minor.I seem bigger.

I’m not the only one. Researchers have come to the conclusion that meditating is good for us and that we should meditate for a few minutes each day.

  • again.
  • and again (and again) to reduce stress, with
  • all the physical, social, and emotional benefits that it provides.
  • Multiple studies have found
  • meditation can reduce feelings of depression Trusted Source and anxiety Trusted Source.
  • In 2003, researchers learned that
  • regular meditation helped to boost immune function.
  • Meditation can help control pain,
  • according to several studies, including these in 2016 and 2017Trusted Source.

The iceberg is only a few hundred pixels high. Meditation is good for me and for you no matter how much we might not want to do it. I like eating vegetarian food once or twice a week.

From one person’s experience as a meditator, here’s how I became a better meditator.

You don’t have to just sit around

Non-practitioners sometimes think meditation is boring. There are many different types of meditation available. What are some other ways to do this?

  • Walking meditation calms your mind when you focus on your strides and movement of taking steps (rather than, say, focusing on your breath). Walking in a labyrinth is a centuries-old practice of contemplation common among many spiritual faiths, including Catholicism.
  • Kata is the formal practice of martial arts, including tai chi. The motions of this practice are so complex it becomes impossible to think of other things, allowing for profound meditative f cus. See also yoga.
  • Listening mindfully to music, especially music without lyrics, produces the same impacts of meditation by allowing you to be transported by the sounds, away from stray and extraneous thoughts.
  • Daily task meditation iswhere you take the process of a task — like doing dishes, cooking a meal, or getting dressed — and focus on it the way a kung fu master might focus on her forms.

These are just a few of the examples. There are many different types of meditation: zazen meditation, nihi, mindful meditation, peaceful meditation, guided relaxation, guided yoga, meditation for all…

A type of meditation that is suitable for your needs and preferences Finding the right match is the hardest thing.

Your brain might mess with you

Meditating is supposed to be a quieting of the mind where you think about nothing in particular to allow that background noise to filter out and let you rest. A certain point in exercise can only be thought about.

Your thoughts are going to keep zooming in and getting distracted during meditation. This happens most of the time at the beginning. secret: It happens all the time to the masters, too.

You cannot eliminate those stray thoughts completely. They are to be allowed to pass through your mind.

You will fail a lot in the first stages of learning. It was only a brief moment when you stopped meditating on your way to the task and dinner.

Some people will start deterring themselves by getting frustrated that the thoughts intrude. You will ultimately be able to let them pass through and over you without taking root, so you can continue your meditation for as long as you wish.

Speaking of “as long as you wish….”

It doesn’t have to be for very long

A modern-day karate practitioner, sometimes called “the father of modern-day karate,” spends the entire weekend in a trance. You will definitely find some of those stories true.

Does that mean you have to meditate for hours to get something out of meditation?


Some of the masters I have spoken with advise us to meditate for one minute per day. It has two advantages that won’t suffice to reap long-lasting benefits.

  • You will be successful. While going to meditate, they will do anything at all for a few minutes.
  • You will not be disconcerted at how much a few minutes of your life will be saved by this.

Personally, I found that those two factors were wonderful when combined. I became more knowledgeable and committed to learning meditation.

You don’t have to be a certain ‘type’ of person to meditate

Meditation is different from other traditional traditions. It can be done by anyone. There are a few groups where people meditate, and these are only their favorites.

  • professional athletes in the NFL, NHL, and UFC
  • actors including Hugh Jackman, Clint Eastwood, and Arnold Schwarzenegger
  • SEAL Team Six and other special forces branches of U.S. and worldwide militaries
  • an impossibly long list of CEOs and entrepreneurs like Richard Branson and Elon Musk

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